Hey guys, what's good? In the past few days, I've come across two interesting people, women, and both were pregnant they seem to have the same conditions but believe me when I say these conditions are not the same at all.
Now these are people I know personally although I'm much more closer to one than the other and merely looking at them I can see the different emotions they carry all around.
Pregnancy is a thing of joy right? Like a new baby will be born in the coming months so lets all wait in joyful anticipation. "Mothers to be" go all out to show the world their baby bumb and take beautiful pictures which will serve as timely reminders. The woman is celebrated by while her husband is congratulated for being a sharp striker, lol.
Once the baby is born, gifts start coming in on behalf of the baby, some get so overjoyed and may even throw a party for the new born baby.
Well one of my friends certainly enjoyed most of these privileges that comes with being pregnant while the other can be said to get the opposite in some way. I looked closely at the situation and found that the difference was the ring on the finger, Marriage. One was married while the other wasn't.
Well, what has marriage got to do with them you may ask, there are dozens of celebs who have been pregnant out of wedlock and received no such horrible treatments rather it was the reverse. I don't know why and how they manage to do it but one thing I know is that this my friend was just a simple girl who fell in love and got pregnant before marriage.
You could call her unlucky. Sadly enough the guy denied her with all his might. She seems to always carry a sad face these days, no one expected it including her. At some point she felt ashamed and hardly came out of the house. It's been tough for her unlike the other 'married lady' that wanted to show her baby bump to the world.
People look at one with glee while they look at the other with pity and some even go as far as to whisper harsh words and spread false rumors behind her back.
One rumor I heard was that at the point where the guy was about to penetrate her, she asked him to pause for a moment and told him she was only doing this because she loved him, the guy simply said, we'll figure something out. What else will you expect at that point, anything to get into the promise land. Some even say their relationship wasn't the most healthy before the incident. I feel for her cos she was so innocent and simple, sometimes too simple for my liking.
Of course these are stories I ought to learn from or suffer. All I can do now is to help her remain strong, and thats going well at the moment.