It matters what we settle down for

I have observed that there are some people who never settle for less in their life and they always get what they want. I feel it is the law of attraction combined with one's determination that makes them successful in achieving whatever they desire. This is not about achieving goals; this is more about getting what you desire in life.

I see this more in the younger generation, they do not want to compromise. They are determined to achieve what they want; however unrealistic it may seem. Honestly, I have a lot of determination to achieve whatever I want, but there are times when I am very practical and first think, whether this is achievable or not and then go for it. There are better chances for me on winning the game. There are some people for who it does not matter if it's practical or not, they just go for it and I see them succeed eventually.

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That's true that you will get what you ask for and what you settle down for. This is specially my husband's theory, he always tells me, if you do not ask for it you will never get it. When we go to restaurants, sometimes he makes some bizarre demands, he will ask for a dish which is not in the menu, or he will ask to modify the dish. I feel very embarrassed with such demands of his. Eventually I see that he gets what he wants, and then he tells me, See, never settle for less when you can get more. He tells me if you compromise, you will only get limited. I am always amazed with his negotiating skills. In our circle whenever we are travelling my friends will ask my husband to negotiate and get the best deals and he always succeeds in it. He manages to get those freebies and add on's with ease.

Personally, for me, I am very good in achieving my goals, and the standard of my goals is always very high, where I put my heart and soul to achieve it and I will work to the extremes to achieve them. But when it comes to demanding something then there, I do not have my strength. I am not a good negotiator. I will try doing that till one level but if I do not get positive signals then I will give up very easily. I will not pursue it further, and I will look for an alternative approach.

I guess some people are born with these skills and traits.

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