When we are very young, we have a very different approach to life, we are fragile, delicate, sensitive, very emotional, but as we age and go through life, life teaches us many lessons which changes our perspective to life. Experiences of life mature us and bring a different level of understanding. We start to cut off from the drama of life. Where at one time we thought important to put our point across, with maturity we learn to just let it go and do not feel it necessary to argue or put our point across. We feel it's ok even if the opposite person does not understand our view point.
As it is very rightly said, Life and time are the best teachers of life. As we mature with life and in time our outlook towards life changes. As a child and till early 30s I was a very emotional person. I would end up crying for anything and everything, but today I am a different person, I am strong and sometimes I feel I have become tougher than required because nothing really shakes me up these days. I can barely cry. I just feel like it's too pointless to keep wasting my emotions over stupid things that does not really matter.
Some people say we mature with age, but I completely do not agree with it. I see many people older than me also acting foolish. Age is just a number as we say, so I do not really believe that we mature with age, what I believe is, we mature with experiences of life, our environment also plays a big role in developing our maturity level. People around us can also influence our maturity level, like our teachers, gurus, friends, family members. If we are in company of wise and sensible people our level of maturity will be different.
Maturity for me is not about being serious in life and doing very serious things. It is more about the level of understanding one develops in managing life. It is about cutting off the drama from our life and not wasting our emotions and energy on that which is not important and worth. It is about not dragging ourself in to chaotic situations.
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