Life is a constant swing between these two, Pleasures and Pain. There is no constant one of it all the time, we always keep moving between both of them. When our mind is settled with too much pleasure then there is a possibility that we will experience some pain, or that when we are in too much pain there will be situations of pleasure coming up. The thing is that pleasure moments pass out very soon and they do not register strongly on our mind, whereas painful moments make a deep impact on us and it always feels like a never ending time.
When I reflect at my life I see that there are many many painful moments and it makes me believe that my life is full of pain. Not in the recent years though. But again if I carefully analyze my painful moment period I see that I have had equally joyful time also, the only difference is that my attention has gone more towards the pain then pleasure.
The joyful moments some times may look insignificant in comparison to the pain that is going on, or it comes in-between the painful phase and the impact is not as strong that it can be cherished. It is said that we learn through our painful times, but it's not exactly true, we can learn with joy also. These are my personal thoughts and not necessary anyone has to agree on it. What we give importance to in our life brings joy or sorrow to us. One thing we need to remember that nothing is permanent, nor the joy and nor the sorrow. So it's best to be in a positive and balanced state of mind to accept both of them with our feet on the ground.
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