Every person who walks through life has a past, some of it is pleasant and some of it is unpleasant. We tend to make mistakes in life and we learn from them and move ahead. Whatever the past is, that does not mean our present and future are also going to be the same. It entirely is in our hands what present and what future we want for ourselves. Making mistakes in life is a natural thing, no one is perfect and can just keep doing very right things all throughout the life. If the person changes for good, then why should we keep going back to the past and look at the person in the same manner that we looked at them in the past.
What matters is what we are in the present and what we want to be in future. It is also possible that we may be doing wrong things in the present times, which at some point will become our past. It depends on us, if we realize that we are doing wrong and we want to change and become better for future. How this topic comes to my mind is, some time back one of my old offices, we created a WhatsApp group to connect with each other. It's been long time I left that place, more then 15 years. It was my first job and it was a start-up, the staff hired were all very young people then, who are now all crossed 50 or near to it, means more than half the life over. I worked with this particular team for 8 years, which is a good long time to create bonding with people. I was happy to join the group.
But I noticed that some of the members were not happy with a few and there would be some regular arguments over past matters as to how each one behaved in the team. This was a little setback for me, because I did not expect the group to remove their grudge on one another for what happened 15 to 20 years back. Some people get stuck up in past and they just do not want to move forward. Everyone's behavior keeps changing in life. No one is same as to what they were 20 years back, we grow and evolve with times and as we mature and we need to do the same with our minds also for considering others. Thankfully the group had some mature conversations and now everyone is cordial with each other and we enjoy our long friendship with one another.
Past is gone, present is the now and future is what we can become. If we hold the right vision, then we can do so much to change our life from whatever it has been. No matter what we have been in the past there is always a scope to change the present and the future if we want to. Life is short and we need to make the most of it, but above all we must live life in a manner then we are loved by people around us.
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