Navigating the Pitfalls of Pride, Anger, and Infidelity

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Embrace the fact that you are flawed and constantly learning new things in marriage.
Love is not for the boastful; if you are unable to submit yourself, your house will suffer. As a human being, one those characteristics that continually creates and intensify problems amongst you and your spouse is PRIDE.

When being a man prevents you from saying "I'm sorry," you are proud, sir. You know you're a proud man when you find it difficult to accept criticism or correction from her or others. You will take offense, uncle Methuselah, and if you fail to deal with it, this will affect your relationship and marriage. When you continually want to be in charge and insist on respect at all times—even when she's making a joke about you and calling you big head—you will select offense.

• Anger*
  Even when a man has the best of intentions, one thing that ruins his love is his fury. You have a small thing that is global in scope, and your personal vex. When one isn't the Hulk. You will swell like garri that they fail to soak, that's a small matter. Work on your temper before it starts to work on you and drives you from your partnership or marriage.

Infidelity
God did not grant you a manhood to subjugate and dominate you; rather, he gave you the ability to bear children and to experience the joys of matrimony and physical closeness. You lack self-control, but you still want a lady to stay true to you. If, as a Man, your ERECTION dictates your DIRECTION, you are in serious trouble. A man will be dominated and controlled by his lust if he is unable to master his need for sex, and this will never, ever end well. And that deed can cause you to lose that ideal woman and ruin your marriage or relationship. Furthermore, you tear God's heart. Stick with the woman you've confessed your love for.

Take control of your pride, Master
Master your Pride, Master your Temper, and Master your Lust. God bless.
Understand your lust, your temper, and your pride. God be pleased.