A Call for Proactive Male Responsibility

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Asking a man for money or something they need always makes most women feel uncomfortable. Even though she is aware that he is capable of handling the situation, they would prefer to deal with their difficulties in secret or seek assistance from others rather than approaching him for assistance. This is especially true for women who have an autonomous and self-sufficient mindset. Their sense of self-responsibility and, above all, their abhorrence of making you feel uncomfortable are the real issues, not a lack of bravery or pride.

Guys, this is something that should scratch your soul. As a male, there is simply no way you can be at peace with yourself or feel comfortable knowing that your partner is not asking for anything. It's terrible that even with a tight budget and savings for the World Bank, you haven't bought her anything for three months despite working and receiving a salary. Two months is enough time to visit the store and get her a nice pair of jeans or some tops; a fancy hair ribbon won't cause your savings to collapse; these are the small things that make a big difference.

The majority of us are content that she works and is capable of taking care of herself. However, despite her role as the director of the central bank, she is still a woman, and as such, she has wants that are exclusive to men.

Instead of waiting for her to approach you and ask for small favors, remember that adult men experience the same embarrassment as mature women do when their partners approach them for money or other necessities. They simply apply common sense to recognize that they have a duty to care for others to the best of their abilities. Men of maturity inquire about her needs without waiting to be asked. If this is your uncle, kindly begin applying common sense.

Alternatively, you could occasionally just give her some money and ask her to hold it for you; we both know that she is aware of your intentions. These small acts lay the groundwork for a successful marriage and partnership. Even after dating for more than a year, the majority of brothers don't even have their partner's account information. Some people are so awful that they can't even recall when they last purchased airtime credit for their significant other. Love comes with a price and that's responsibility.

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