To hit rock bottom and then to decide for life instead of death (suicide) is, in the severity and actuality of depression, quite a task. When depression has its strongest grip, nothing is of interest, indeed. I can confirm.
It is even too exhausting to challenge another person. Or if you did, to even be further interested in an answer. How was it, when you challenged your wife?
The moment when interest in facing up to life returns is probably the moment when the fear towards life is overcome.
A depression, when it was a severe one, characterizes itself as "not being able to remember the details of daily life" but only the heaviness and grayness of its overwhelming presence.
I agree, the wrongness of finding oneself in a state of "nothing matters" is the impossibility of being able to have that notion in total - not only for now but stretching out into the future. If one feels the totality of it as something inescapable, the only way out would be self kill. Finding it wrong is to decide against it.
The experience of depression and to have outlived it, without seeing myself as a victim, is something I value. It frees me from resentment and to seek for someone to blame that I had been in that state of depression, in the first place.
Nihilism itself, as a concept, I do not equate with depression.
Does it make sense to you that to annihilate meaning (go to the very dead end of personal thought) actually can bring refreshment?
Sure, it makes sense to me that X --> refreshment, where X = "going to the very dead end of personal thought", because anything can theoretically bring refreshment. I don't know for certain that X (going to the very dead end of personal thought) would bring ME, or any particular person in a particular situation, to refreshment. But it makes sense to me that it's possible.
"Nihilism itself, as a concept, I do not equate with depression."
I don't know what Nihilism is, beyond various definitions humans attribute to the word. I can approximate an understanding of the concept, but would rather not use a label to frame it. Your post mentioned the idea of nothing mattering, which is what I responded to, because I have personal experience with that feeling. For me, it happened during the depths of serious depression, not before, and not after. So for me, nothing mattering is related to depression. How that relates to what people call Nihilism, I'm not sure.
Thank you for your analysis.
To conclude that "nothing matters" in a depressed state of mind
differs from
To conclude that "nothing matters" in a fresh state of mind.
These are temporar states of mind, I would say. Nihilism is defined in the dictionaries. I can use it for communication purposes, in order to contrast nihilism towards something other than itself. If you consider it unhelpful for contrast use, I won't say anything against it.
Thank you for commenting.
I'm sure we could figure out a definition for nihilism that we both generally agree on, but who cares? I don't. I was just telling you my personal experience with "feeling as though nothing matters", a concept you brought up. You want to relate it to nihilism, that's your choice.
If the conclusions of a "depressed mind" are different from the conclusions of other minds, how do we determine if a mind is depressed or not? I'm trying to see your point.
Actually, I didn't once use that phrase "nothing matters" in my text, it was titled in the YT video. I used the subject nihilism as the most exaggerated form of "nothing" to point out that it stands in stark contrast to "everything", i.e. giving too much meaning to something, identifying with something.
Then I gave an example of people who build up an ideology and over-identify with it. And use a trick by saying that human rights are not up for debate.
I need not to determine the minds of others, they make them up on their own.
With my last sentence I was describing the difference between light mindedness and heavy mindedness, something I experience as altering. On this spectrum you can hit rock bottom or you can also feel serenity. You initially gave me an example of rock bottom to which I related.
Clearly your post is about a state where nothing matters, but you're correct that you never used the term "nothing matters". So I withdraw my original comment, as I believed you were talking about something I have experience with. Also because I find you are fighting to win, not arguing to find truth. To me those are not the same thing and the difference matters. Carry on.
I did not relate "nihilism" to depression. It was not my clear intention to do so. If it were so, I would have visibly talked in my post about "depression" linked to nihilism.
Though I - after you talked about it - confirmed it to be true that in such a depressed state of mind the thought that "nothing matters" is very dominant, depression in relation to nihilism was not part of my given context.
I followed what you believed I was talking about and added some of my thoughts on the subject as I went along.