Consistently keep your promises is an important part of any relationship. Keeping your word when it comes to commitments to yourself, your family and your friends are one of the most valuable gifts you can give them.
When we make a promise to someone we think they are really committed to making it. But if they can't keep up with the promises we have made then it becomes obvious that they are not going to make the commitment.
Commitment to ourselves begins when we are very young. The first thing we want to do is to find something we love and to do it. It's almost natural to want to do something and to feel good about ourselves.
But that same natural desire to feel good about ourselves then becomes destructive when it affects our own life. We get so caught up in ourselves that we miss out on the happiness and joy in our relationships and even those we don't yet have. When we do something for someone else, it's because we want something back from them.
Commitment to our relationships starts when we are young and continues throughout life. We may find that when we promise something to someone we are not sure they will be able to keep up with us. Or we may find that we may feel as if we have broken a promise. We may find that we become more attached to someone until we feel obligated to them.
It's important to make sure you are keeping your word when it comes to anything that you make a commitment to. This is why keeping a list of your commitments and what you need to do to keep them is so important.
Keeping a list is not only important for you to be able to see the things you have promised but also for your partner. It shows them you are serious about making things work, and they know you will be there if they need you.
Making life change starts with us and then our family. If you make things easy for our family and our friends and then they begin to make a life change in their lives, they will see the way you are leading them. And in turn we can also be the same kind of leader that has done so for our family and friends. By being consistent, we are leading by example and showing others how to follow our lead.
Make it easier for them to change their lives by getting out of the way when it comes to their issues. If they aren't happy, they will tell you. It's up to you to make a difference. If you are the one making all the changes, you are the most likely to succeed in making changes for them.
Make it easier for them to get out of debt, by making the payments on time. If they are doing things that you don't agree with, make it easier to find other ways for them to deal with these things.
Make it easier for them to get health care, by getting it in. for them to get the best possible price from the doctor or health care provider.
Make it easier for them to get into college, by going to the school that you have set aside for them. If you and your partner want to go together, make it easier to go together by going together.
Make it easier for them to get into the best job or profession, by going together. Even if it's for the same profession, make sure it's something that is relevant to them. and makes both of you happy.
