Being yourself and Being Real is important

People will come and go in our lives, but the one who will always remain with you is your own-self, and how honest we are with ourself decides our level of integrity. There are many people who fake out to fit the bill or to seek attention or to get their work done, but then how long can one keep faking. Our true nature does emerge at some point of time to the opposite person. If one tries to show to the world that that he or she is a very nice person and in reality, if has malicious or wrong intent, then that intent will sooner or later show up to the world.

The most important person in our life is our self and what you want to look into your own eyes will decide how you want to lead the life. Good or bad, people will always keep judging us, but that should not bother. Why should one do anything to please anyone. It is very important to be real and being true to self, because that's what matters at the end. People will judge us good if our actions suit them and people will judge us badly if our actions do not suit them. Even from our end we do the same. Everyone has an opinion of their own; what may look good to one may look bad to another. These good and bad are very relative terms. What's important is what makes you feel good and what makes you feel bad, and not what others feel.

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I always talk about self-love and compassion. When we are true to our self, we accept our whole self and that's the feeling of compassion, because no matter what you are you still accept yourself. When we fake it out and live fake lives, we are deceiving our own self and that's where we lack compassion. If we cannot accept our own self with flaws, how will we accept others with flaws then.
Also, I look at it this way. I am who I am and if the opposite person cannot accept me for the way I am then we are not meant to connect. If I try to change myself to suit other people's need then how much will I keep changing, because every person will have a different need from me and if I keep doing that then I will lose my original self in the bargain. That's what happens with a lot of people, and they end up being frustrated in life, because they are trying to please others more than their own self.

All our life we keep doing that, we try to make others happy. It is not wrong, but the most important thing is in that bargain are we also happy or not. If we are not, then our actions are wrong. If we are, then we are energetically connecting in the right manner. People will try to please us and make us happy till the time they need us, this is the irony of life. Once they have achieved what they want from you then they may not even look back at you. The question is, what have you lost or gained in that bargain.

While people can take advantage of us by faking out and it is equally wrong if you do the same to others. Hence it is important to be yourself and being real.

Being real is what keeps me humble. It doesn't matter how much money I make or how much I accomplish. What's critical is staying real to myself and keeping my feet on the ground. That's what helps keep me going.
Anuel AA

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