Do you want to be the first one to say "No!" when it comes to everything? Do you want to be the first one to step out in front of the crowd and say "No!" instead of "Yes! "?
No, you don't. You just might be afraid to do so. You might feel that you are not strong enough to do so. You are afraid that others will ridicule you for refusing to bend to other people's will. You are afraid that you would say or do something that no one else wants to do or say. You are probably also worried that you would make a big mistake if you say or do something that is unpopular.
It happens all of the time that individuals get in trouble. Sometimes they do it for reasons that are completely wrong. Other times they are forced to do it because someone else said or did something that they really want to do but didn't have the time to get ready for. But in either case, they end up with regret for not seeing it before it happened. Instead of seeing the trouble, they just see the situation. They do not see the opportunity to get ready.
The way that you should view yourself is this: Everyone gets a chance to get what they want most of the time. It is up to us to grab it. If we do not get it ready, others will. If we do not get ready, we ourselves will get the opportunity to get it.
If you want to get ahead in life, the first thing that you need to do is recognize that you are capable of getting what you want. When you start thinking that you are unable to get it, you have already failed the first step in your plan to succeed. Do not waste your time thinking about what could have been instead of what has already happened. The trouble with being no.1 in everything is that once you start focusing on other people's success more than your own, you are stopping yourself from reaching your own goals.
The next thing you need to do is stop comparing the things that other people have done with your own. For instance, if you are saying that your neighbor has a lot more experience than you, do not keep telling yourself that you can not compete with that. Just keep focusing on the things that you have done and try to surpass those. If you really want to be no.1 in everything, you need to get rid of all the ways that will make you inferior to other people.
Focus on the way that you have done. This way you will see the difference between the things that you have done and the things that others have done. This will help you achieve the goal of no.1 in everything because you will realize how much you have actually succeeded in life. Once you see how much you have accomplished, you will be motivated to do more and to become better than you were before. You will also realize that what you have is no longer something that you want but something that you need to get in order for you to reach success.
Finally, the last thing you need to do in order to find out the truth about being no.1 in everything is to get rid of the pride. Once you realize that you have done enough to get where you are, you will no longer focus on what you think you are lacking. In fact, you will know without a doubt that you are a superhuman because you are living a better life than most of the people in the world.