If purchase someone's love with cash or material possessions,you be l must be ready to continually spend to maintain that love.
Given love that is motivated by sympathy or financial gain virtually ever last. Love should always be freely and voluntarily given. We choose to put our time, effort, money, and sometimes lives on the line for those we believe to be valuable to us. It's similar to committing to someone else's happiness without their request because you believe they are deserving of it.
Relationships where the love was affected by one of the partners had a lower success rate than relationships where the love was developed spontaneously. Love can be momentarily purchased with money, pity, or any other item, but it will always diminish. This is why I constantly advise singles looking for love as well as those hoping to forge enduring bonds with their partners to only show their affection to people who do the same.
There is a special link of connection between you both when someone loves you unconditionally for who you are. This connection makes it simple for the two of you to work past your differences and maintain the relationship. However, if someone falls in love with you because you convinced him or her to, there will always be differences between the two of you. What's even more sad about this kind of relationship is that the person who is pleading for love will be the only one making an effort to keep things going.
But the sad reality is that such a one-sided relationship won't last very long and won't be very fun because a relationship is a game for two and needs both people to give it their all.
The success of your relationship with that individual depends greatly on their motivation for being in a romantic relationship with you. What brings the two of you together will also play a significant role in how seriously your spouse takes and invests in your relationship. Have you ever taken some time to contemplate the nature of your relationship with your partner?
Do you believe your partner would still be with you or view you as a good partner for him/her if your partner received what he/she is receiving from you from someone else? Some of us actively cling to a relationship we know is unsustainable out of fear of having to start over, or for whatever reason we know to be true. But I don't think it makes much sense to spend extra effort on something that is already designed to fail.
It is pointless to spend time in a relationship with someone who does not genuinely love you for who you are. Even worse is if your partner is only staying with you out of pity or because they want the material goods you're providing. Either they'll find someone else who can give them more material advantages than you can, or they'll get weary of loving you out of pity. Therefore, avoid wasting your time with this kind of person and spare yourself the unnecessary stress and tension. Influenced love doesn't typically endure over time. Anyone who isn't capable of loving you unconditionally for who you are isn't worth your time, let alone your love.
Don't waste your time, emotions, energy, focus, resources, or life on people who you have to bribe or manipulate to love and be with you. Such a relationship lacks a solid basis and will fall apart quickly with even the slightest wind. Spending your life on people who are undeserving would just waste what you could be getting.
He or she does not deserve your love or anything that comes with it if they are unable to freely adore you.