Last week, I had a guy who visited me for a reading session. The person is going through relationship issues with his partner. It is a love marriage but now things do not seem to be moving very right. The couple has been having many challenges which are financial and issues with their extended family members, all of this is impacting their relationship. But the most that is hampering them is the girl's behaviors towards the guy which has been very disrespectful. The girl keeps shaming the guy at several instances and this is what is bringing the bitterness into their relationship.
One thing I always believe in is that every single relationship needs trust and respect. Love comes later but when these two basic pillars which are the foundation of any relationship and if they are not strong then a relationship cannot survive just on Love. When you start disrespecting any person and put them down it kind of breaks their confidence and self-esteem, and when that lacks the relationship becomes weak. It no longer stays a relationship of Love, but then it becomes the relationship of power. Relationships of power have no meaning and they are toxic. In such cases it is best to move out of that relationship.
It is true that respect and trust is earned but there are times when one partner's ambitions and desires are so high and when those are not fulfilled, they start attacking the relationship in whatever way they feel convenient. In this case it is something like that, the girl has high ambitions and she has expectations of some level which are not being fulfilled. It is not wrong to have expectations and ambitions but then one also has to be realistic with the condition of their partner. If the partner is not able to fulfill them then it does not mean you start attacking the relationship and disrespect your partner. If both of them come together and work out their problems then that will bring better solutions then fighting with each other, because that's only going to make their relationship more and more bitter. Toxic relationships bring no happiness to life and because of that the whole life becomes messy and ugly. Understanding, respect, trust and love are solution to every problem.
Relationships need love and nurturing and when that fails relationships also fail.
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I totally agree with your thoughts. It is very important for a couple to be on the same page in a marriage. Being respectful and considerate towards each other is the key of healthy relationship. If one fails to value other then the marriage will shatter.
Yes, it's a 2 way street and if anyone tries to make it one way then it's a failure of the relationship
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