I came across this very beautiful picture and a story around it where a woman is falling off a cliff and a man is trying to save her, both of them cannot see each other completely, the twist in the story is that the man who is trying to save the girl has a rock crushing him and the for the woman there is a snake on the cliff, now the man cannot see the snake and the woman cannot see the rock crushing the man. Hence, they form their own judgement, the woman thinks that why can't this man use some more strength to pull me and the man thinks that why can't this woman use some more strength to move up. Both of them are not able to see each other's pressure.
This is what happens in real life also, we get so absorbed in our own problems of life that we are unable to see the pressure the other person is going through, then it can be our own family members and friends. We fail to understand them, we set expectations from them and when they are unable to live up to those expectations we have our own judgements around it, but if we learn to dwell a little deeper we may understand why that person is not able to set up to our expectations. Life is not easy for anyone, there is work pressure, financial burdens, family responsibility and what not which every single person is working on and we do not understand each one's challenges completely.
I believe that a little kindness and being humble towards each other goes a long way. Understanding each other without forming any judgements and being kind to each other will help ease out the pain of others to a certain extent. We may not be able to take away each other's problems of life but we surely can be comforting for each other with kindness and compassion.
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