Love Exchanging & Getting Back Together

in love •  4 years ago 

Exchanging love with currency is one of the most powerful experiences in life. It's a great feeling to know you've done something to make another person happy. A lot of people feel lost and frustrated when they can't get their ex back. The good news is, there is absolutely no reason for this. In fact, you can get your ex back if you do it right.
First of all, have a heart-to-heart with yourself. Remember what made you fall in love with each other and what made you want to break up. Was it your compatibility? What was it about you that attracted your ex? When you get to this point, you've already done half the battle.


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Once you've come to terms with who you really are, it's time to start thinking about how you're going to play the game of love and brokenness again. You have to figure out how you're going to win back his love and attention. The best way to do this is to exchange back what he loved most about you. You can exchange back his love for whatever you did or didn't do.
Do you remember the last time you exchanged love? Can you still remember? If you can't, then go back and do it now. You have nothing to lose. If you weren't able to, then try it again right now. Your ex will be very surprised to see that you're not holding onto any of his old feelings for him.
Now that you're thinking about how you're going to win back his love, you need to decide what you're going to do. Do you want to get physical? If so, great. You can start by getting together with some of your friends and having a few drinks. This will make it easier to think about your love making.
After you've had your drinks, you can start kissing some of your friends. This way, you won't sound like a wimp. It will also make it easier to distract yourself from your ex if he does come up to you and starts asking questions about why you haven't got back together. You can give him an honest answer without beating around the bush. If he asks why, then you can give him another answer or change the subject immediately.
Once you've got your drink or snacks paid for, then you can start thinking about what you two need to do to exchange back the love that you have lost. What you need to do first is to forget about the break up for a little bit. You need to give your ex some space and make sure that you both calm down from the breakup.
Once you feel comfortable enough, then you can think about what you need to do to get back together again. If you two want to stay back together then it's probably best if you move back to the state you were in before the breakup occurred. Just pretend as if you were still single and use online dating sites to find potential dates for back together. Exchange back your love and attention until the situation suits you. Once you have successfully made him feel wanted and loved again, then you'll know that you've successfully exchanged love with your ex-boyfriend.
When you meet with him again, it's important that you're positive and don't get into a whining or argumentative state. Your goal here is to get him back into your life. You don't want to push him away and instead you need to let him know that you respect his feelings and need him back. It might be easier said than done if you're ex is generally quite aggressive when it comes to getting back together with you, but you need to stick to your guns.
If however, he doesn't seem to be receptive to your efforts to get him back, then it might be time to move on. It would be better if you just move on and hope that he'll suddenly fall back into your arms and want you back. But if this doesn't happen, then you have to determine if he's worth getting back together with or not.
When you finally come to a decision to get back together with your ex-boyfriend, remember that you can always fall back into love with each other again. Just make sure that you keep a level head and keep the lines of communication open so that you can eventually get back together. When you exchange love back, remember that you're doing it because you still love him and because you think it would be better if you two do work out. The most important thing to do is to stay calm and make sure that you both don't argue about the breakup.

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