Reality of life unveiled !

It hurts when someone who is really close to your heart is the reason for your sadness , and that is very natural and it can happen with anyone.

If a small boy abuse a big man he will be hurted that a small boy abused him but if that boy was his son the father would have been heart broken.

I think this small example is enough to understand how the first paragraph i written is justified.

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You need not think about the blood relation but even if a person you trusted alot hurts you it effect you more.

You can say that it is directly proportional relation , the more the person is near to your heart the more you will be hurted by him.

Till date i don't have a answer to this question , the question about how to avoid getting hurt like this , i really don't have a answer to that.

One can try to maintain a relationship gap that will help him get less hurted but again it's not in our hand and we often get attached to people.

I don't know if this is a universal problem or not but if someone reading here has a solution to it , please feel free to share it down in the comments so that i can read that.

Thank you