Don't depend on anyone

in life •  4 years ago 

When we are in a relationship with someone, we become dependent on him. We give him the remote of our mind. This is completely wrong. My mind is so I will only control my mind. Why would anyone else!

Girls make one thing more wrong. That is, at the beginning of love, the man of love is made into a world of imagination and a thousand dreams are arranged with him. Then when he leaves, he becomes alone.

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We tell him all the weaknesses in our thoughts for two days and then if there is a little quarrel, he gets a chance to hit the weakness. Where there is no certainty about when we will die, I said no more about love relationship.

So it is not easy to think of someone as your own and you will not be given a chance to hurt your weakness. Some trouble is only your own. You don't have to tell everyone everything you think. If you want more, tell the creator.

He is not the only one who returns us empty-handed. If the relationship is broken, then we make the biggest mistake. Many people say that if you get involved in a new relationship, you can forget the previous trouble. This is not completely correct.

So suddenly it is wrong to start a new relationship. Because, if the new person is also bad, then the trouble will increase but more. After a breakup in a hurry, it is not possible to start a new relationship.

Don't forget the pain of a relationship with someone of the opposite sex. Talking can make you weak towards him.

Because, people fall in love with words the most. Besides, those who have a hard time want to think of him as their own again.
Keep yourself busy as much as you can in your own religious work.

If you are a girl, you can hang out with girlfriends and if you are a boy, you can hang out with boyfriends, plant trees, draw pictures (try even if you can't draw well),
Sing songs (no matter how good the voice is, there is nothing that will cut your test mark if you sing badly), you can listen to various religious sayings on YouTube.

This means that after the breakup of the relationship, keep yourself busy through these various activities, but do not spend time with someone of the opposite sex anew. Then you will become dependent on another person again.

In fact, we have to take care of ourselves. People can give us advice but we have to follow it ourselves. The biggest thing is to have the desire to get yourself out of trouble.

Some people love to keep the pain in their chest. They will say orally that they want to be good but will not try. They can never free themselves from the pain.

You have to remember that all the problems are temporary. You can't break it. Life is one, so enjoy it as much as you can and prepare yourself for the Day of Judgment. Don't forget that this is our eternal abode.

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