Life is not easy for almost everyone, it's only that people go through their tough situations at different stages of life. There are times when we see a person suffering in old age and when you look back at their past, they have had a very jolly good time. And there are times when a person is having a great time in their late life and that person has gone through extremely difficult situations in the past. Hence when we look at a person it is never right to judge them from just their present condition because what lies in their background we never know.
There are times when we look at some very happy people in life, and wonder how they are so happy and why this happiness is missing in our life, but the fact is that we may not know their struggles and pains of past which they have sailed through and now in a better position in life.
Why do I say this, because many people tell me that I am having a very comfortable and happy life. No doubt I do have that in this moment, but my past has been equally turbulent, from my childhood till my middle adult hood time I have just been thrown in back to back challenges and dealt with them. This has not only made me strong but now I also feel unnecessary to get into any drama of life and keep myself away from all of it. Detachment is what I call it. If I get it's fine and if I do not get then also it's fine, which is my attitude now and I see that I am very much at peace with this attitude.
In past, when I would look at other people, I would feel the same, how do they have such happy lives and why do I not have it and now I understand that it is a state of mind that one reaches to with experiences. In present I will not say that I do not have any problems, but I wish to not give them too much importance and would like to take a look at life above them.
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