It is foolish to expect change from others without changing yourself!

in life •  3 years ago 

Our world is changing. That is, our world is changing over time. Even people are changing over time. It is very important to change over time. Because in order to keep pace with the society and the state, it must change with the age or with time. Similarly in many areas of life we ​​need to change many things. In fact, although we have changed with the times, we remain unchanged in many ways, both internally and externally.

Changing clothes is not the only change. That is why we have to change everything in our behavior, attitudes and behavior. Because these are the things that make a person feel better these days. But honestly we never move forward with these changes but these changes remain unchanged within us. But to be honest, we often advise others to change, even if they are unchanged.

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We all know that if we don't change ourselves, people will find it ridiculous if we suggest change to others. People never think that is acceptable. Giving such an example. If you throw any rubbish on the road while walking down the street. Nor do you solve any dangerous thing on the street. And you advise others to keep the road clean or to refrain from making it difficult for people to travel. Then this kind of talk will seem ridiculous to many. That is to say, people do not accept the change that is not in themselves, but take it in a ridiculous way.

For example, there is a man in our village who does not do any work all year round. Lives dependent on others all the time. That man is a laughing stock to many. He is, of course, an educated man. When he advises people to study or to work, people take his advice in a ridiculous way. Of course, even if he doesn't say anything in front, people criticizes him in the back.

In the same way if we cannot change in every aspect of our lives and we advise others to change that subject. Then people despise us. Even the mind tends to ridicule. In fact, it is foolish to suggest to others that they do not change themselves. Because people don't accept that. So of course first we have to change then we have to advise others to change.

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