If it hurts , be the change you want to see in others !

It hurts when someone take advantage of your innocence all the time. It hurts when you see that people you trusted the most , people you kept at the top in your priority list are not worth that place.

Don't let others make decision for you , if you will give this power to others you will end up being unsatisfied in your life. these people will make decisions in your life that will not fit you and then you will regret about believing that person.

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We humans are so selfish and only think about ourself , we don't try to keep ourself in other person shoes. If things go according to us we are happy and we love everyone but if things are against us we blame and say trash about others.

So what is the solution ? should we also become like others ? should we ignore all the pain and keep suffering it ?

First of all you must not give so much power such that making decisions on your behalf related to your personal life to anyone. Yes you can ask for suggestions from your elders or friends before taking any decision but never give the power in their hand to decide something on your behalf.

Similarly , you also should not become one of those who start taking decisions for someone else. Yes if someone ask for a suggestion to you give them a good advice and leave the rest to the person.

when we will learn these basic things and when we will work on ourself we will see the change coming very soon.

So yes it do hurts but somewhere the reality is that we are also responsible for our situation most of the time. so stay confident about what you do and not rely on others specially in your personal life decision making.

That's all for this post , I hope i was able to explain my point of view to all the readers.

Thank You...!