The control freak

Many will say that they do not like being controlled or relinquishing control over their own actions. Humans do not like being ruled but being a lone wolf is not seen as a good idea either. You have to adapt to the group and the society you live in. That group of people is big and the bigger the group the more being with others starts to irritate. Aggression, hate, and envy lurk, not to mention the feeling of being threatened in one's territory.

Like animals, humans also need a place of their own. Sharing a home with others can be oppressive especially when not everyone has the same lifestyle or ideas.

Even within a household, there are rules to be followed to keep the peace. So when it comes to control, there is almost always 1 person who decides and the rest have to agree and follow the rules to keep it nice and cozy.

Is it fun when someone else is in control and decides how you should behave? Those who always have to compromise may have problems with this when the bomb goes off.

Of course, some people find it blissful that others decide everything for them. They don't want to be responsible. Not for their actions, their own lives let alone for others.

Relinquishing control is easy for some and an impossible task for others. The control freak will never understand how someone can just let everything run its course. The control freak cannot see the adventure in that.

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