My struggle with insecurity and the lessons I have learned along the way. 🕊️

in life •  6 months ago 

Hello Everyone ❤️!

I hope you all are doing well, Let us talk today about some Real facts! again.

I woke up early today severely dehydrated. I went to my restroom .I was full of sleepy swollen eyes with my hair messed up .Yet!! I tried to adjust myself to see if I look any better. There is this picture in my mind, of how actresses look so beautiful in movies when they wake up. So my mind asked me to see if I can look any better too.

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This made me think how social media have driven us soo crazy that we just want to be perfectly fake all the time.
When I say perfectly fake, I mean that we try to look beautiful when we wake up, While we are exhausted and crying and all those times when we are not looking pretty but tired and exhausted.
WHY!?
To be honest , When I am in my university I see how girls are soo curious to look better all the time .We all could go to restroom and I would wait for them while they try to readjust there makeup. "To make themselves better".
As girls we all need makeup and I am not against it .But I want our own people, our society to start seeing the real us and normalize insecurities . We all have some insecurities that live rent free in our head .Some have acne, dull skin tone...
Its not even our fault that we try to make our self's look better .Its how we have been made to do soo.

Rather then being real we just try to hide our insecurities our real textures and we put tons of makeup. We are driven crazy by the media that we want glass skin, thick bodies ,long healthy hair, perfect features.

I think its high time we start believing that its all fake. And no one is perfect .And we should start believing that what have been shown to us is fake, Its either surgeries or editing .

Talking personally, When we have free time . Our main topic is beauty ,make up that's all. I think as girls its really fine to talk about makeup and stuff. But I also think we can start talking about healthcare, skincare ,mental health too. Because these are the very required standard.
Talking about my experiences, I had very bad acne due to which I felt really insecure. I remember random people asking me what have I done to my face. Like seriously! Is it in my hands?

I tried every so called desi remedy and what not. I switched to skincare and i brought a lot of product.
Understand that
"Skincare takes time and Good skin requires a lot of patient."
But I was simply impatient that I had to switch from skin care to makeup because I was so desperate to hide my insecurities. I used to apply sunscreen ,foundation, face powder ,concealer to hide my acne and it worked. But what it did was worsen my skin time to time .Soon, I realized that my skin is getting even worse , So what i did was uno reverse,
And now here I am just using skincare with no makeup at all.

Results are that now my acne is much better then before. I switched from eating nothing or junk food to eating only healthy. I eat healthy ,drink plenty of water, stay hydrated and here i am with less acne and with good health.

See ,how I managed to switched from bad influence to good one.

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But this required a lot of time and patience. People would poke fun at me about my skin, and I could be easily made fun of.

I think most of us wants the output but we don't work with the input .We don't work hard and we want results within days.
To be patient and to be consistent .These two keys can really help us become better and achieve our desired goals faster and faster.
My post may or may not offend you. But if it does I'm sorry I am sharing my experiences and my perspective.
My main goal in todays blog is to tell that We can actually become better if we switch to a normal lifestyle rather then a fake one.

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From makeup to skincare collection! 🪷


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This product helped me a lot for my acne! 🪷


*THANKYOU SO MUCH FOR TAKING OUT TIME TO READ MY DAIRY❤️ !!!
TAKE CARE❤️

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