It's hard to define success in today's dating environment and it is honestly all relative. Our perception of what it was like during different periods throughout history could be a flash in the pan and a glimpse of what we precieve to be good times but we weren't there.
What if you are over 6' tall, have a six pack, are in the top 1% of strength and power in the world, have a big cock, have money, are driving hella fast in a luxury supercar.
Most married men would rather have my life. I know because a lot have told me they live vicariously through me.
Some of the shenanigans I have pulled off this summer are nothing short of something that would seem to be a madeup story.
I do all this field research to entertain my 13 engaged followers on these DPoS blockchains and report back my findings.
The fact is in the United States men have lost too much leverage to have sustained traction with a looks equivalent female the majority of the time.
There might be some outlier examples that from a distance seem to somewhat make sense but we don't see what is going on behind closed doors or what these guys are putting up with on a daily basis.
In my field research a lot of men are paying out the ass even for women who are a date down or don't even meet baseline requirements from a few decades ago.
For most guys like myself and a lot of my friends aren't going to be paying into these date downs and there are very few of these women we can invest in long term. It makes sense for us to move half the world away before we try to clean up the mess here. Things are only going to get worse here in the United States. I would say we are 5 years behind Japan in our birthrate implosion. We have the Amish, Mormans, Homesteaders, and Mexicans bringing the averages up but I'm predicting that 80% of 30 year old women will be unmarried and childless in 2030.
The modern woman thinks she has unlimited options and unlimited time until she doesn't. Someone should really have a conversation with these women. That would have usually been their fathers but most of these young women have grown up fatherless. Sometimes because these guys were deadbeats but a lot of times the women were incentivised to kick the man to the curb and have him support her from a distance while she gets slammed out by other guys.
The amount of these women I see out window shopping for a bigger better deal is a very large percentage.
What Is Elite Monk Status?
For myself I just am not on the dating apps and may reach out to some women who were already in the fold. I may cold approach a woman if she is right in front of me but I'm not going out of my way to try to work the kind of volume it requires to make significant moves in the United States.
I mainly focus on my fitness, my rest, and getting my money up. Chase that paper to stack them coins! 💪😎
Why Am I Going Elite Monk Status?
For starters the women are very low quality here. Even not being overweight is this miraculous achievement for these women. Most have extreme mental issues from eating processed garbage, taking birth control for years, potentially getting the covid "vaccine" which seems to have scrambled their brains even further.
Then you are going to have to work unbelievable volume so sort through all of this. A lot are in these quasi relationships / situationships, possibility seperated. The amount of women that you run across that are still living with their Ex and are out there trying to monkey branch is a significant percentage.
I'm going to lose the time factor going through Elite Monk Status but once the summer starts to conclude the options fall apart even further. It makes sense to gear up for the Australian summer but ultimately from all my experience and studied other guy's experience I would really need to be in Eastern Europe to have sustained traction with a higher tier of woman.
There is too much friction in the United States. And I'm someone that has a fair amount of success. Most guys aren't able to end up even talking to a woman. The time committment is extreme when you are trying to makes stuff occur with attractive women.
When each of the gyms around here have 1 or maybe 2 women you would take an extended look at it's time to make moves to get out of here. I can tell you this. The guys who are 25 or 28 are running into the same issues and are likely having less success than me. The reason I say this is because I have pictures and videos that a guy that age normally wouldn't have so I look different.
"Brian, you should just settle for one of these women." I understand your thinking and I have weighed that out. Most of the time even if things are going well it's very tough to get things to go longer than 2 or 3 months with a legitimately attractive woman here unless you are paying out the ass to pay off her debts or are letting her run wild and run the show.
The best thing for me right now is try to be as efficient as I can because these women will bleed you out of your time and really dial in to make moves to do more globe trotting where there are greener pastures.
The women in the United States aren't going to care if you leave. From their perception the men are low quality options for them.
The sexes are all fucked up nowadays. Most of us aren't in touch with the divine nature of our masculinity or femininity, so when we come together for a relationship, things don't click. On top of that, we're propagandized, consumerized, and made shallow by Disney and Hollywood. It keeps us from each other.
Welcome back to Elite Monk status, though. I've never been in that status, although I got about half way to Greek God around 2006. My gym buddy at the time was good at motivating us with silly names for various goals and plans. You seem to be a meat monster of some kind. No matter what I ate and no matter how I worked out I was not able to put on much bulk. I did find it kept my overall health up.
Men and women have been driven apart for sure. Forced to compete with each other in the work place and then driven to resent each other. It's creepy.
I eat a lot of steak and eggs and I can really tell a huge difference when I'm locked in on that and lifting heavy and being with women. It really cranks your testosterone up having sex, being out in the sun, lifting heavy and really getting the nutrition on point. That is good you had guys to lift with. It makes a huge difference when you are pushing each other. At this point I don't have a hard time putting on mass. I can get jacked and have a good power base but it is tougher for me to do the cut from 220lb down to 205lb. I have found that at 205lb my jaw line gets a lot sharper and my ratios get better.
With this crypto crash I'm going to have to lift heavy and act like a privative human all week.
At this rate, my 11 years of content creation (1.1M BLURT) will be enough for a month at the local gym. Maybe a jar of creatine.
That's tough. I will say that right now the blogging platforms have been getting pressed hard. Steem, Blurt, Hive, and right now we are trying to save DTube.
Damn, what's the deal with DTube?
I posted there in the early days, but at some point got locked out of my account, there were some shenanigans and unprofessional shit, I think I pissed off hymendanger or something. I don't think I'm able to log in.
So many video platforms came and went. I was posting on Flote but they disappeared and kept my crypto. Also posted to brandnewtube, but they shadowbanned me, and then they got hacked and my account got taken over by the hackers. Amateurs...
Hopefully DTube survives and maintains freedom of speech.
It has been a rough road for DTube in my mind and also a lot of these blogging platforms that have fractured off the original STEEM blockchain. I honestly wished we could have just stayed on the same chain but I understand why various groups wanted to control their own future more.
So what has happened to it now is that Hemin disappeared and then the bridge that was linked to the BSC wasn't being maintained so we couldn't really get to the pool on there. Then Ionomy seemed to quit working as a centralized exchange. Then there were so many "Stale" leader nodes that it caused the chain to halt and they couldn't get it to go again because there weren't enough Leader nodes active that had been voted in to run the chain so they had to restart the chain from the point it had halted and change the amount of Leaders and get things restarted. We are trying to pick of the pieces with it but there is a lot of work.
But yeah you are right there have been so many other platforms pop up and the one main thing that seems to drown all of them is the expense of hosting video is so much. So they ultimately have to try to not actually host the videos. DTube turned into more of a way to share videos that had already been uploaded to other platforms. Which is understandable for what they were dealing with. Personally I think in the end the best thing is for DTube to ultimately rebrand for several different reasons.