Kindness does not change the true nature of a person.

I have been asking myself this question, can kindness change the nature of a person?

We try so hard to maintain a friendship. We sacrifice so much to keep a relationship. We show enough love and kindness for those that we want to be around us.

After all this sacrifice, people will still choose to do what their want and act as if you have nothing for them. I think it is very hard to please people by just showing a act of kindness, those gestures hardly work nowadays.

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It is true that kindness would and can never change the real nature of a person. Everyone has an engineered nature in their DNA. Just like the snake, no matter how you try to pet and love it, when the time comes it will still bite and instil poison inside you.

Just as your sacrifice does not matter to a snake because it's nature is to bite, your sacrifice will not also count for those who have already decided in their heart to hate you.

For your own good, it will be better for you to avoid people who just hate you naturally, don't try to please them by making sacrifices that is out of your convenience or control.

The more you show kindness, the more they hate. Your life is more precious than anything, don't try to change a nature of a snake for any reason, once you see it runaway for your life or it will surely bite you.

You have no one to blame if you keep watering the weeds that chokes up your crops, no one will come to your rescue when you keep staying with people who does not want to see your progress. You will have yourself to be blamed.

You have a brain, use it to think and be wise to avoid people with a poisonous nature.

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