How many times have you been rejected? How many times have you failed? What is the difference between a failure and a mistake? What does it take to stop being afraid of failure? Failure is not just part of life, it's an essential part of success. But it can be a pretty frightening concept.
Let me share with you three reasons why failure matters, and then I'll share how embracing failure can help you succeed.
Why Failure Matters:
- Failure Means Success
In life, you're going to fail. It's inevitable. And that means you can only get one thing from failing... experience.
So even though you're destined to fail at some things, the sooner you get started, the sooner you get some experience. You'll learn from that experience, and you'll be stronger for it.
- Fail Forward
When you try something new, you may fail. Or you may fail spectacularly. But either way, it's important to fail forward. Don't dwell on the mistake, but keep moving toward success. Learn from the failures, but don't stop trying.
- Failure Makes You Stronger
Most people would agree that the road to success isn't always easy. To get where you want to go, you need to overcome obstacles, which means you're going to fall.
But falling helps you grow. It helps you build character. Failure makes you stronger. And once you've learned to overcome it, you can move on.
The Most Successful People Embrace Failure:
The most successful people embrace failure. Why? Because they know failure means success. They realize they're bound to fail. And they're ready to accept that. They understand the importance of failure.
They're constantly learning from their failures and figuring out a way forward. It's this continual process of learning that helps them stay ahead.
And here's the most important reason they embrace failure. They know it helps them succeed. They know failure leads to success. So they don't shy away from it.
Why Is Failure Important:
- Failure Keeps You Honest
Every person you meet is going to give you the same advice: "failure is not an option."
It sounds ridiculous, but this doesn't mean they aren't sincere. They really believe that. They're just saying it because it's their job to teach people.
But the truth is, nobody really succeeds without failing. This is why I encourage my clients to embrace failure. If you fear failure, you're not going to get the results you want.
You won't learn how to do it or how to cope with setbacks.
- Failure Gives You the Courage to Try Again
If you're afraid of failure, you're never going to try something new.
You're never going to take risks or break from the norm. You're always going to settle for the same safe options. The people who are truly successful
It’s important to fail often