It is hard to start from the scratch , when you are all alone in your life and no one is there to support you. You are terrorised by a fear at that time and this fear can be anything.
It might be a fear of losing , it might be a fear of dying , or anything else.
Why do we trust people , why do we give them so much right that they can even destroy our life , why ?
Is trusting people a crime , is it better to be alone from the starting , what is better for us ? who will tell us...?
Some of us get attached to people very soon and later when the we part our ways , it hurts us. So should we blame ourself or should we think the problem is only in us ?
No , that's not what we should do. No one is perfect so there is no need to blame yourself but you should learn to accept , yes that's what i am trying to tell. Learn to accept and then you won't be in any of the situations i have mentioned above.
See if we are in a relationship and somehow because of the other person relationship broke , it's not your fault. You don't need to stay alone and cry , you don't need to start your life from the scratch or you don't have to quit on your life either.
Do you know why? because it is not your fault and it was the fault of other person. If that person can forget you and live his life without giving you any value is he/ she even worth remembering and becoming a reason for your destruction ? No.
I would like to end this blog by concluding few things :
- don't blame yourself for the mistakes of others.
- give priority to yourself and find your happiness.
- Never give up and make your mind ready for any move in your life.
- learn to accept.
And lastly , no one is responsible for your condition and it is all upto you to make your condition better or worst.
You just have to learn to accept.
Thank u