"Janet, how's is it going with you and Bro. Tom?"
"Chioma, wow. Tom is a good person and a true Christian."
"What do you mean by 'He's a true Christian'"?
"Well, since we starting dating, he has never touched me and he made it clear that sex is not part of the deal until after marriage."
"Hmmm. And you are cool with that?"
"Ah, ah! Chioma, are we not Christian? Is that not the right way Christians should court?"
"Janet, what if he's sterile, of a different sexual orientation, or cannot satisfy you when you're married, what would you do?"
"So what do you want me to do now, Chioma?"
"I'm sceptical of guys who say no to sex until after marriage. Some are gay or turn out to be sexually uncomplimentary to the sexual energy of their spouse."
Janet sighed and her mind wandered in thoughts.
"Chioma, I think you have a point. I will do something about it because marriage is not something one walks out of so easily since it's expected to be a lifetime commitment.
Janet met her fiancé, Bro. Tom and began quizzing him about his insistence to no sex until after marriage.
It resulted in a heated argument and she told him that she suspects that he is either gay or would not be able to satisfy her in marriage that's why he's avoiding it and using Christianity as his cloak.
The relationship crashed and they went their separate ways. Soon, fake news of Bro. Tom being gay saturated everyone.
He felt helpless and could not defend himself amidst the lies against him.
Hence, no sister want to marry him because they think he's gay.
Anyway, this is one reason so many brothers, apart from the fact that many of them are also sexually reckless, dey fire 🔥 down plenty sisters, using the window of "we want to marry."
In our churches, we have children of God, children of the flesh, and children of Satan. These three are different people. All three of them are in this story.