My decision

I have made decisions in my life that I never have second thoughts about them. whether I get to face the consequences or not, I am always free of them. but lately, I made a decision that I turn o question myself if that decision is worth it.

I have been chasing shadows for long in my love life. I have never had someone to just call mine apart from my parents. We need company to sometimes survive this harsh world. Someone to turn to when things aren’t in good shape. This had made me make many decisions that I don’t know if its worth it.

In love, you make a decision now. But before it comes out of your mouth, before you say anything. Take time to think through, analyses and make your judgements then ask yourself, “Will it matter in the next 10 years to come or not?” this is the bravest question and when you have an answer to it, then you will make a positive decision.

I made a decision to wait for someone who hasn’t even promised me a relationship. One might say I am a fool. But I go with my judgement in the sense that, I valor this person and it will actually matter the next 10 years to come. If my wait comes through, my life after the long wait will be the best part of my life. Its better to try than never. I am taking my chances.

Never doughs the possibility of your dream coming into reality. When you need it, stay awake, work hard and stay on the doors of your creator and you will one down smile and say, I was actually worth it.

So, I am staying, I am waiting. There is hope at the end of the tunnel and all I can say is, make sure you hold great champaigns at the end of the tunnel because at the end of the day, there will be lights there while we drink to our success at the end of it.