Losing Someone You Loved Dearly

Hi Blurtians! I just want to share the pain that the family members felt when losing someone in the family. It is truly very painful and you may experience waves of intense and very difficult emotions, ranging from profound sadness, emptiness, guilt, or regret.

When we lose somebody that we love, when we lose somebody to whom we are connected, that pain or grief, is the pain of detachment. Our attachment to others makes us feel safe, secure, and connected in the world. This is the reason why it is so hard to lose somebody in the family.

Prayers are very important for the dead family member. We should be praying for the soul of our departed family member out of love. The purpose for the various prayers is to repose of the departed, to comfort the living, and to remind those who remain of their own mortality.

Coping with the loss of someone you loved dearly is one of life’s biggest challenges. But it can be lessened when the family be together to help one another and to give comfort to each other. When the family unite, the feeling of being alone and too much sadness can be avoided. ♥️