The Importance of Discussing Family Planning During Courtship

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I was paying attention to the radio the night before and there was a discussion about a program about family planning. In reality, a woman was looking for advice on what to do. She had three children with her spouse already. He advised the man to use family planning as they are not financially stable enough to raise more children, but the father declined. The man prohibited her from discussing this kind of thing with him, and he won't allow her to bring it up again.

He stated that family planning goes against his beliefs, that having children is a gift from God and shouldn't be prevented, and that using family planning is equivalent to having an abortion. [Oga, you really need to get your act together if you want to avoid becoming the father of several countries in the future or bringing suffering children into the world.] She sought counseling in order to determine what to do because she felt that the conflict was starting to cause problems in their marriage. Her story led me to two conclusions...

The amount of children they planned to have before marriage was not a topic of conversation. There is currently a problem because they neglected to mention family planning.

You know, I used to wonder what individuals are truly talking about during courtship when I heard tales like this. Some people waste time talking about lovely things that have no bearing on the marriage.

You shouldn't joke during the courtship phase if you want to avoid getting choked out of your marriage. This is the moment to engage in deep dialogue, pose genuine questions and receive genuine responses, resolve conflicts, close agreements, and do research. Many people find that sex, pizza, shawarma, and other foods prevent them from seeing the road, and they typically face the music in marriage. Whatever you choose not to talk about during your courtship will be staring you in the eye when you are married, and by then, it might be too late.

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