There are always consequences for your actions. If we do not consider these consequences before an action we may regret later. When we make mistakes or commit transgressions we expect others to hold us accountable for them. You cannot blame someone else for your personal failure. Nobody else is responsible for your actions except yourself.
We are responsible for our own actions. We have the power to choose between good and evil. You alone are responsible for what you do.
No one wants to suffer or be harmed. But unfortunately many people in today's world often lack empathy and compassion. Sometimes people try to justify hurting others because they can't handle caring about someone else. Or maybe they just want to avoid any problems or punishment. Whatever the reason, many people seem willing to ignore the consequences of their actions.
So who pays attention to us? Who cares? Not everyone does. In fact, sometimes people actually enjoy causing harm and discomfort to others. Maybe some teachers enjoy seeing children struggle in class and some parents enjoy watching their kids cry. Some bullies just love being mean to others, especially those weaker than them. And some people just hate other people.
It is true that we cannot control everything that happens around us, but we can at least make sure that our own actions lead to positive outcomes. We cannot blame others for our bad decisions, but we should accept responsibility for ourselves.