There are a few things you should know if you want to know how to do it for you. First, if the person you broke up with is still in love with you, the breakup could actually be good for you. Just because he or she left you, does not mean that he or she has forgotten about you. You may have gotten very far as a couple and could possibly win back his or her love.
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Next, your ex-girlfriend will be spending some much needed time away from you so what better opportunity than to start dating again. She may realize that she misses you but you have to show her that she is still the most important thing in your life. Show her that she is still the center of your world and that she can count on you to always be there to listen when she needs to cry or to just have a good time.
Get out and meet new people. Do not sit home watching TV and get yourself in bad habits. Meet some new people and enjoy life while you do so.
Now, once you have let your ex girlfriend see that you can still get along without her, it is now time to get busy making up for your mistakes and showing her a new side of you. Show her that you are still the same person who made her heart melt a few months ago but have become whole again. Do not take her for granted and do not fall into the old habits you had before you became apart.
Do it for you. If you did not succeed in getting her back despite all your efforts, then at least you did something right. Try not to get too stressed over the breakup because this could hinder your success. Take some time off and do something fun. It might sound silly, but this could actually be one of the best moves you can make in order to get her back in your life.
Do it for you. Just as you did it for her, the same rules apply to get your ex-girlfriend back - you have to work hard, and not give up easily. Once you have proven to her that you can still get along without her, she will start to come back to you.