Autism and Relationships (Or Potential Relationship) || My First Unpleasent Encounter[CC]

in blurtvideo •  2 years ago 

back in May, my folks wanted take out. I normally call it in and pick it up. I tried calling and the number was not working. I don't remember precisely. I think either I got an error ( you know the voice error you get if you call
an out-of-service number) or it just didn't ring. I thought they were closed or the line was busy.
long story short I happened to sit next to a guy who wanted to talk. i thought nothing of it because when you're waiting for something, someone might talk to you. the guy had instant romantic feelings for me. I am on the asexual spectrum, therefore I only experience these feelings once a connection has been established. I haven't heard from him in about 2 weeks. I thought twice about him when he called me in the middle of the night and wouldn't take no for an answer when he repeatedly asked me to come to his house. Instead of dropping it, proceeds to pressure me into sleeping with him

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  ·  2 years ago  ·  

I haven't watched the video so I don't know if you said anything else or if it was an introduction only, maybe you already know this then, but the most powerful word is No. If you don't know I invite you to seek if indeed "the most powerful word is no".


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the guy wouldn't take no for an answer. Which is in the video...

  ·  2 years ago  ·  

His No, outweighed your No.

Refusing is the first step in setting boundaries, without which you'll never get to work on yourself.


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I gotta work on being more assertive. I distanced myself from him. I don't need someone that can't take no for an answer and think what they did is cute and OK

  ·  2 years ago  ·  

Tell him the truth, you don't like him and you don't want to. No.


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