Normally boys are sexually adults within 15/16 or earlier.
Girls before 15.
There we have fixed the age of marriage for girls at 18 years and for boys at 21 years. But I have made the system different again. The working age limit for boys is 32 years. After graduation, the age becomes 26/27 years.
If the average life expectancy is 65 - then he will continue to use other people's money till the age of 32. After that, becoming self-reliant means getting a job and getting married after 32.
The boy who became a sexual adult at 18. She got married 15 more years later.
What will he do in these 15 years?
Can't go to the neighborhood? Can't go to Liton's flat with his girlfriend? Park chipaya lover will not touch the body?
Will you make yourself a stone by clenching your teeth?
How much is possible? How much is logically possible? Both for Boys and Girls?
The sale of alcohol is banned in this country. But if caught with alcohol, the police hoy to drink tea and water!
A boy will wait 18 years to satisfy his hunger before the age of 18. Since we are not living stones. We have physical needs. So a boy / girl will wait 18 years?
Do you or anyone else believe that someone is waiting?
Restaurants in this country need a private zone without waiting. Mirpur Mazar Road has a restaurant with small huts. The park takes privacy with an umbrella. Everyone knows this society. Except. If not, these would have stopped. We accept all this. I just can't accept marriage until the boy is established.
If you read the biographies of any of the super successful business men in this country, you will see that they became successful much later. At least 40/45/50 years of age. Will you wait that long? Girl to marry them?
Our parents do everything according to Islam. They do not follow Islam in this matter. That was marriage. They don't get married unless they see the pot doing a good job. Get married after being established before the society!
According to the Qur'an, get married first, if you are poor, it is the responsibility of Allah to establish it!
But Islam says marry when you are an adult.
"Who will feed the wife?"
This is the biggest obstacle to marriage in our country.
Is the wife an elephant? Or a horse? He doesn't need 10 kg daily. Isn't it?
With BCS, at the age of 33, you have to stand on your own two feet and get married.
Stand on your own two feet .....
Now think, why marriage is half religion!
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