your frustrating to see people not distancing but you're ok with sitting in a cafe for hours?

Hahaha, you got me on this one. We were actually observing.

I feel like big cities are becoming obsolete.

I have to agree on this one. The virtual city will be more relevant than the actual physical city. One of the biggest shopping mall chains in Singapore & Malaysia (Robinsons & Co.) has permanently ceased its operation. According to reports, they started losing profit starting when "online shopping" became popular. The pandemic made the process of closure much faster.

Restaurants & Cafes should consider going virtual if they want to survive the aftermath of a pandemic.