...It's all about unleashing the monster at the right times - and not (ever), letting it 'take over the show'...
For me to now be able do this well, took a bloody long time to work out in my own noggin'...un reconciled moral hierarchies, conflicting with ethical hierarchies
(ultra, erh, and many others, helped me greatly, in me finally getting there).
p.s.
You didn't help in this process - at all!!...(that's a compliment, btw lol)
The monster in all of us is emotion driven , not rational and blurring logic and common sense .
Control your monster , do not let it control you .
Do not deny your monsters existence , as it will start controlling you covertly .
Care for your monster , make it your friend , for the info it gives you is not unimportant .
The monster is part of our survival instinct , releasing some rage and violence to survive a attack on your life works even better when you control your beast .
It is our lower life form , and with our higher life form we must take care and lead .
Not a easy task , as the many so miserably fail for fact .
Thanks for the compliment .
It is always good to see others come to certain views without my help .
;-)