For those of you who don't spend much time on twitter, you may not know that this has been trending since some days with different hash tags urging men to get a DNA test for every child they have.
This isn't a new topic but the recent case of a man who lost his life to shock after he discovered that his two kids weren't his but that of his wife's boss brought it back to limelight and this time with different popular opinions.
There are different slogans about women flying left, right and centre which can be summarised in these two words, "Fear Women". While it is a terrible thing to cheat on your husband and make him father children that aren't his, men aren't exempted from this also as many men have been known to father children outside their matrimonial home but hide under the disguise of "men are polygamous in nature".
Cheating is wrong no matter how you look at it. Now that men are chanting "get a DNA test for everyone of your kid", what happens after the DNA test?
If you have doubts about your wife's conduct, it's okay to want to know if the kids you have belong to you but it will be a great stupidity to want to just go have a DNA test even when you have no cause to doubt your wife just because some tweets by some people of which majority are single men and women who are privileged to have access to internet.
It is very difficult to build trust and loyalty but very easy to break and lose it. What happens after the DNA test and you find out all the kids are yours and your wife never cheated? Do you think the home will ever remain the same?
I tell you, not many marriages will survive this whatever the result turns out to be. Suspecting a woman who has been nothing but faithful to you can break her and discovering a child who you love so much isn't yours can also affect you psychological which can lead to death.
Am I saying carrying out DNA test is wrong? No! All I am saying is if you have no reason to suspect your wife, it will be foolhardy to begin to act out the views of others.
The rate of cheating is high but there are still honourable men and women. Don't give yourself unnecessary heartache. If your home is peaceful, don't go looking for what is not looking for you.
To the young ladies out there, don't pin a pregnancy on a young man when you know isn't the father of the child. If you are a married woman, respect the sanctity of your home, stop opening your legs for another man who isn't your husband. Don't think your secret will stay hidden for long, you are only sitting on a keg of gun-powder. It is only a matter of time.
To young men, if you must have sex, use protection. Don't go pouring your seeds into every vagina out there. If you would not use protection, be responsible enough to accept your child. If you are a married man, control your third leg and leave another man's wife alone. It's really a disgusting thought that a married man will be cheating with a married woman.
The rate at which this DNA test thingy is going, a lot of marriages may crash.
What's your opinion? DNA test or not?