A few days ago I received a mail. The man who wrote the mail is a twenty-three-year-old man and the one he wrote about is an old man in his fifties — his father.
Absolutely with a broken heart, he said: In this difficult time of fitna, he is fighting with his nafs and trying his best to protect his gaze; But a recent incident broke his heart completely. That is: while searching his father's phone in his fifties, he discovered a lot of pornographic videos in a hidden folder. At the end of his life, this young man of restrained character, who has just set foot in his youth, cannot accept such a step of his old father.
When I went home a few days ago, I met a school friend. I saw that he is the same as before - very habagoba and nidarun apatu in the book of life like reading. While talking, the topic of Facebook came up. One thing he can't find on Facebook is by no means. I said, 'Areh! Very easy! Give it, let me find it '.
Clicking on the search bar of his Facebook ID, I was stunned for a moment! A diary of my milky-looking friend searching for everything on Facebook and spending time looking at it, became clear as clear water in front of me.
Why can pornographic videos be found in the secret folder of the phone of an old man in his fifties? Why does a young man with a rich but very ignorant personality go around looking for obscene things on Facebook? Reason: ruthless availability of technology!
Although the use of the word 'ruthless' in conjunction with the word 'readily available' is quite unavailable, in my opinion — there is no way to say that the easy acquisition of that thing pushes a social structure, a civilization to the brink of decline.
On the day of the advancement of technology, we will be able to describe the thousands, thousands, millions, millions of good aspects of it, but the bad aspects of it may not be enough. But the power of those few evil spirits is so strong and powerful that it is enough to destroy a society, to destroy a civilization!
By technology, I'm talking about social media and smartphones in particular, which are door-to-door, not hand-to-hand, in people's mouths, in their veins, in their veins. As you may know, some of the best tech-superstars of this century, who have added various gems to the world of technology, also want to keep their next generation as far away from the world of technology as possible.
Steve Jobs, who was the CEO of the iPhone company until his death, did not allow his child to use his invented iPad.
The use of children's smart-phones in the house of Bill Gates, the one-time CEO of Microsoft, is quite limited in the time spent in front of the screen. Her children could spend an hour and a half in front of a screen, mobile phone or computer.
The same thing happened with the owner of Snapchat.
Why are the big tech giants so narrow in handing over technology to the next generation? They know and understand many times better than you and me about such an excellent quality of technology or millions of good aspects. Yet why don't they want their kids to use technology arbitrarily? Because, even though you and I don't understand, they understand how terrible and horrible the damage of technology is. They know the consequences of arbitrary use at the end of the day.
The result is that we will discover pornographic videos on the old father's phone, we will see a friend who doesn't understand the world very much, become a regular customer of the virtual dark alley. And in this way a tragic chaos will spread in the society.
The man who keeps his eyes peeled in pornographic videos, let alone the woman in front of him, or someone in a veil, will not think about any of this. He would think that a bunch of meatballs was walking in front of his eyes that might look like the girl seen in such a video. Maybe-or ....
Rapists are not made overnight, there are many controllers for making rapists. One of the many regulators is the decline of morality. Social media and smartphones in hand are doing that job very well.
We are working for the punishment of the rapist, we are agitating, innumerable people from all around are gathering in it, giving shelter, supporting which is a matter of great hope for the society. But now is the time to act on the regulators that are slowly motivating a person to become a rapist, the materials that are causing a person's moral stumbling, the potential rapist.
If this arbitrary use of technology continues, thousands of Delwars will be dormant in every house. Lack of opportunity and power alone will not satisfy their desires. If found ...
Need to fix, how am I using technology? My brother, my father, my sister? Aren't we in the early stages of making Delwar?
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