If one thing goes wrong, everything goes wrong. I started doubting my decision and questioning myself that am I on the right path. Few things always force me to think twice regarding my own decisions. I am feeling like I am losing my confidence and I am judging myself too much. Probably due to my negative toxic environment at my workplace, I am losing my confidence. Today again I asked myself why I am doing such a shitty job where I can quit anytime and find something better for myself.
People who actually don't understand my capability and my politeness and well-behaved attitude consider it as my weakness, and what to expect from them exactly. I have never felt so disappointed when I was in Ukraine. I can't judge the entire nation because of a few toxic people. This time I am wrong, I have chosen the wrong job for myself...
The atmosphere that makes me feel sick of everything, the people who are toxic and full of negativity and selfishness, I have nothing to say about anything except doubting my choice...
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Priyan...
Hey @priyanarc,
Stay Strong.
One wise man once said to me - Be SpiderMan/SpiderWoman. Don't be SuperMan/SuperWoman.
Meaning that - SpiderMan/SpiderWomen leaves the previous web only after getting the next web in the hand. SuperMan/SuperWoman just leaves the surface.
In more easy words, leave the current job only if you've found the suitable job.
Just don't quit the current job like SuperMan leaves Earth Surface.
Hope you'll find the suitable job soon.
Wish you all the luck.
All the best.
This is something I have been thinking too...
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Seriously, it seems that the work environment is too bad.
At some point in my life, I read a warning that a colleague placed on a small sign on his desk: "Don't mistake my kindness for weakness. Don't mistake my patience for helplessness."
They were good sentences to make things clear. He was a very kind and pleasant person, but once they managed to take things to the extreme and annoy him, the result was really not pleasant, he ended up with a case, a mess in labor courts and a lawsuit that lasted a while.
No one got anything good out of that fight, in fact it even seemed silly to me that they ignored his kind, clear and direct warning.
On the other hand, what I can recommend is that you try to look for another job while you continue in this one for now. I do not recommend resigning without having a job offer at hand, I did the opposite of this advice once and I can say that it was not a good idea
In the situation you are in, it is something that I consider normal to be full of doubts, but it is time to ask that even if you doubt everything, do not doubt your will to move forward, you left an area in armed conflict with bombing, you managed to get out of there your beloved pet, you decided to find your way in another country other than the first you arrived, even if you consider that at some point you make a mistake, take it as learning and do not torment yourself. I once read that Edison was asked about his thousands of failures when he was trying to create an inexpensive incandescent light bulb, to which that man replied that they were not failures, they were lessons on how he did not have to do things. That attitude is not easy, but I think it is worth trying to apply it to your own life.
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