I don't know what's going on with the planets ( actually I do know ), but it has been such a weird couple of days.
I haven't slept in days, or at least not more than 3-4 hours a night, yet feeling weirdly perky.
Ok, I may also have slipped back to my coffee addiction, which always equals a slightly over the top version of me 😅 but hey it can be a good thing sometimes. . .
After, yet another 3 hour sleep, I got up this morning, and seeing how the Gemini season is raging out there ( so windy ), I decided I needed a dance, to move this crazy energy in me.
I feel when you move your body, in whatever way , shape or form you want, is always the way to get back to your self and ground a bit.
I've been feeling a little nervous, I realized as I was coming back to myself.
I have a call scheduled in a bit with my sister, with whom I have a very interesting relationship with.
We never lived together, she is ten years younger, and we have experienced a very different upbringing.
She was "the dog who is sleeping on the velvet cushion in the cozy room", while I was the one "who sleeps in the garden, under a little shed, so at least doesn't get wet" kind of dog.
I always realize that being in my own bubble of friends and choosen family is relatively easy, but when it comes to my blood related ones, the stories are just to vivid.
Even when I say I have put them down, they always come up and bite me in the ass ( excuse my french).
So, having this call scheduled with her, which is also the first time we speak this year, is making me question, who am I going to be on this call?
Will wounded little Petra, who feels abandoned by her Daddy will come out and play?
Will psycho b*tch Petra start making sarcastic comments on everything ( although sarcastic comments are there no matter what, especially when I am caffeinated).
Or perhaps 'love and light' Petra will be here, being all mature, and a loving big sister, who genuinly cares about her sisters new life since she relocated. . .
We will see very shortly, I guess. . .
But glad I have reflected before hand. . . thanks for your ears 😅
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must...not...comment.....must...n....o.....t..com....
lol, be my guest, i wouldn't want you to be constipated with your comments built up inside you. . . 😅
Oh, I never suffer from mental constipation issues ...(haven't you noticed?)...lol...
I was being.....erm....respectful.
oh go for it then. . .don't play this game of "I have an opinion but i wont tell as it is disrespectful".
that is far more disrespectful than anything that you could potentially say. . .
you have an opinion? sharing its disrespectful? either don't say that you have an opinion, or say what you wanna say, and let me deal with it. . .
You're taking this far more seriously than it warrants, honestly...
if it's bugging you that much....
....I was being flippant regarding the previous conversation about you being triggered with the way I expressed things in the context of 'objectifying '....
Now please got off that very high - and far too serious - horse...lol...(no disrespect intended ).
LoL, i totally took it as you have issues around my way of expressing my family traumas and self reflections.
Didnt even cross my mind that you talking about my picture 🤣
Off the horse , back onto the unicorn 🦄
....oerrr, misuss.....
At least you are mature enough to realise you have these parts of yourself. May the light win.
LoL 😅😂🤣
He is not mature enough, I just told him off the day before because of him sexualizing women. . .and he is just taking the piss 😅 no maturity here 😅🤪
Me neither 🤪😋🌹
These are never easy situations I always take it step by step and say what I feel and what makes you think will help either, hope it when well with younger sister 😊
It went amazing, thank you. We had a very nice converstaion actually. I think writing my worries out beforehand has really helped.
She may even come to visit me soon.
Thank is great to hear @petrapurple so happy it all worked out fine for you and sister good times ahead coming enjoy :)
thanks darling, family dynamics are always complicated everywhere. . . im sure if she does come to visit, it will be shown 😅
Don't we know it but happy it all when well and maybe more good times to come :)
After all, we also do this for ourselves. . .to work on family patterns. . .