Motherhood- the best feeling in the world

I am feeling elated, just with the thought of it that I am a part of this so called wonderful experience of Motherhood. I think the feeling of Motherhood is the best feeling in this entire universe one can have.
My Son is now 24 Years, and quite independent, but I still feel he is my small baby. He will never grow up for me probably, will always be my small baby.
Now that he has grown up he has become my advisor then what it used to be some years ago, where in he would come to me for advice. I feel very proud of that, and sometimes we do have arguments also just the difference in opinion ones, generation gap what we say :-) but that does not change the feeling at all.

It's been 4 months now that I last met him when he came to visit me, and after that it's just been phone calls. Though I am not much of a technology friend but then this one thing is a boon that connecting people across the globe has become so easy and convenient, the video calls bring the person closer. So in that manner we stay connected. But while we are so bonded, we do not keep calling each other every day. Both of us are absent minded and we get lost in our work for days sometimes, and that does not change anything a bit in the relationship.

I am the more sensitive one, and yes it is natural being a woman, so sometimes I do make a fuss about things, but then he knows how to pacify me. When we were staying together, there were times when he would wake me up mid night and ask me to prepare something for him to eat. He would say, come on get up, and make something for me, I am very hungry, or he would just come and hug me middle of the night and then say things like I Love you, I will always be there for you and all.

Then there are many times, if I get upset with him, he will have tears in his eyes till date and then both of us will hug each other and cry...hehehe...not that we are crying babies or that it happens often, but it's just our way of expressing to each other our Love.

Now that he has a girlfriend, so I have 2 children and I make sure that I give her the 1st priority then him, to never make her feel she is any less to me.
With God's grace both of my children are very sensible and also sensitive. I miss them a lot when they are not around, but then life has to go on.

When Children grow up, they become like our friends more then Children. On my last birthday both of them very fondly treated me with a dinner of my choice.

This picture was taken when my Son Yohan was born and we returned back from hospital. It's a very special memory for me. My little bundle of joy

We Indians have a ceremony and celebrations for almost everything. When the baby starts sitting and walking we do some special ceremonies.

On his first birthday, that was the first time I made him taste some food which was not home cooked and he loved it so much that would not want to stop. It was Chinese cuisine and till date it is his favorite.

The first day in his Nursery class. I am feeling so emotional looking at these pictures.

Favorite Santa time

His Birthdays were always very special, there was always a party with his friends at his choice of place.

Always surrounded by girls and till date it's the same :-)

He was a bright student as well, never failed me. I was and always am very proud of him.

He never was scared of anything from childhood, always wanted to do some adventure

He enjoys travelling as much as I do

Always ready to take me for a ride...heheh

How much ever old he gets, but he will never outgrow my lap, still and always will be my little boy.

And as I cherish this relationship of Motherhood with my Son, on the other hand is my sweet Mother, who has always been such a kind and loving lady. I have not spent much time with her in my growing up, but she does express her love for me all the time. I can just say between me and my sister, I am her favorite :-)

Mother's Day is every day but yes making it extra special on one day does have a lot of value. Yohan never believes in putting up pictures on social media special FB and Insta and showing it up to the world. He will always tell me, My Love is for you, so whatever I have to say I will tell you directly and not put up on FB. I value these thoughts of his. He has grown out to be an extraordinary person and now he is my teacher.

I wish everyone a very Happy Mother's Day

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