Every relationship has to come to clove distance in one way or the other, sometimes in connection with work and sometimes due to family issues. This distance is sometimes a few weeks, sometimes months and years. But, the problem is felt when the partners are unable to handle their relationship due to this distance and they feel the need to end their relationship.
Many times it happens that even a relationship of 2 -3 years gets weakened by a distance of 2 months. In such a situation, couples have to make some efforts to maintain their long distance relationship. No long distance relationship can be effective without effort.
The most important thing in a long distance relationship is not to make your partner feel unwanted. Admittedly, both of you are not together, but this does not mean that instead of filling the problem of getting away, you should increase it. Following are some tips through which you can maintain your long distance relationship.
Keep communicating
Communication is very important in relationships. How was your partner's day, is he not sorry for anything, what work did he have to do today, where did he go around with friends, what is the plan to do tomorrow, etc. It is very important to ask and tell. If you do not talk, then the distance between you two will deepen, yes, keep in mind that at all times do not just keep talking, live in present moment. It is not that you keep igniting the person sitting next to you in the matter of talking to each other.
Give and support personal space
Take care of each other's personal space and if he does something new, then support him. It is not that your partner wants to be alone for some time and you keep asking him to talk to himself. If your partner joins a new class for himself or does some work, then support him in it even if you do not have interest in those tasks.
Keep each other updated
In long distance relationship, it is very important for the partners to be updated about each other's activities. You have got a new tattoo, you have come to shop, something new is happening in the office, college or home, you have started doing something different or have met a new person, keep giving all these information to your partner. . With this, both of you will feel that you are still with each other and are not unaware of anything.
Don't just chat
Just by chatting you cannot understand each other's emotions very well. Apart from chatting, do video call, phone call also. As much as possible, meet each other. If you are unable to meet for months, then it does not matter, at least keep talking on calls every other day. Sing songs for each other on video call, do a lot of things and make each other feel like you both are near. Share your favorite songs with each other, watch movies and discuss them. Talk about what's new on social media. Along with romantic, also share funny and sarcastic items.
Do not underestimate small things
Small things have great value in a relationship. You may be far away from each other, but you can definitely make each other happy with small things. When I love you then keep saying, Compliment the partner, praise, if you like something, then tell him, comment on social media, keep each other feeling special. If possible, send gifts by online shopping for each other, send letters and postcards by hand. Send your t-shirt or favorite book to each other.
Talk about family and friends
In long distance relationship, it is very important that both of you do not talk to each other only about each other. It is also important to talk about each other's family and friends. With this, the partner will feel that you can talk to them on every subject and keep import in their life, they are not limited to their romantic life only.
Partners are not able to remain sexually independent when they are not near each other. They both yearn to touch each other and feel near them. When they see another couple having intimate moments around them, then they miss their partner excessively. In such a situation, it is very important that both of you maintain your sexual desire and keep you sexually connected to each other. Chat sex, talk romantic, tell each other on the phone what you would like to do whenever you meet. Give importance to romance and sex when you meet each other.
Keep faith
It is common for partners to engage in long distance relationships. In such a situation, it is very important that both of you assure each other that you are not cheating them and never will. In a long distance relationship, a partner can easily cheat, so do not cheat even if you have a chance. If you want to leave your partner then definitely breakup but never cheat, don't cheat him. If you meet any new person to maintain trust, do not hesitate to tell your partner about that, do not try to burn your partner, if you ever cheat, tell your partner clearly. The more trust you want your partner to trust you, the more you also trust him.
Be available for each other emotionally
It is important to be emotionally available more than physical in any relationship. If your partner is upset about something, then instead of leaving it to him, ask what has happened. If both of you are fighting, instead of giving vent to your ego, give importance to love and talk. It is very important to stay emotionally connected.
Don't keep complaining
Instead of complaining to your partner at all times, instead of complaining about the cause of his / her being away. He is not far from knowing you, he also has some duties, goals and responsibilities. Understand this. Always complain not to make him feel guilty.