Hello Friends,
I don’t know if there is any attraction in my writing, but yes, I try to share my feelings in the light of real life experiences for the most part. Because by sharing our experiences or feelings, we can not only exchange information, but also try to take advantage of an opportunity to improve our position. A few days ago I shared something about parents with our child, I still tried to share something today.
Today's issue is a bit of an exception, because not only school education but also family education has a great impact on our children. I can't talk about the culture of other countries, but the first education of the children in the culture of our country comes from the family position. Where parents and siblings contribute the most. So if a child from our family receives the wrong education, it stays with him for the rest of his life.
This is why every parent should think about the future of their children, so that there is no wrong or bad influence in their education. Although unknowingly we have a lot of wrong education with children. I am sharing such a subject with everyone today. This situation may not exist in any other country, but we can still see it here.
In our country when children learn to speak and learn to walk. Then we take them on trips to different places so that they can have some fun. When the kids are walking or enjoying the fun, if for some reason they fall behind or get hurt, we try to hit that place in front of them and try to comfort the kids that He has been punished for hurting you. The children calmed down for some time.
The question is, how reasonable is the work we did to comfort the children? Because what are the children learning from this? I do not know if you have any thoughts on this issue? But I am thinking, from here every child will try to learn something negative. There will be a belief in his mind that if I am hurt for any reason or by anyone, he should be punished or he should be hurt. This belief that was formed in him, he will try to apply it in his next real life, how right will it be?
In fact, we have to think of alternatives, such things cannot be done to calm the child down, so that he learns wrong or believes something negative. Because children try to learn from everything they do. And it is not easy to get rid of the problem that is in the minds of children. That is why we need to be very careful about what kind of work to do in front of the children or in any case to give them peace.
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We try not to fight in front of the children, not to be aggressive in front of the children, so that there is no bad reaction between them. In the same way, I think we need to be more aware when it comes to teaching children about each other or giving them peace of mind. Because the matter may be small in our eyes, but considering their future, it is not a small matter at all.
Declaration: This is original content of mine.
Thank you all for understanding.
আমি মোঃ হাফিজ উল্লাহ, চাকুরীজীবী। বাংলাদেশী হিসেবে পরিচয় দিতে গর্ববোধ করি। বাঙালী সংস্কৃতি ও ঐতিহ্য লালন করি। ব্যক্তি স্বাধীনতাকে সমর্থন করি, তবে সর্বদা নিজেকে ব্যতিক্রমধর্মী হিসেবে উপস্থাপন করতে পছন্দ করি। পড়তে, শুনতে এবং লিখতে ভালোবাসি। নিজের মত প্রকাশের এবং অন্যের মতামতকে মূল্যায়নের চেষ্টা করি। ব্যক্তি হিসেবে অলস এবং ভ্রমন প্রিয়।
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the education from family is important, it's good not fighting or arguing in front of the children for sure, I had a very bad experience in my childhood because my dad always brawl with my mom.
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