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Man's best asset is his sense of self-worth.
Your higher and stronger self-esteem is a much better and better asset than money, education, power.
It is important to have confidence in yourself, to listen carefully to yourself, to have good communication with yourself and above all to respect yourself to build a beautiful and happy life.
You will never be able to develop your best self unless you have the respect you expect from others.
How do you know if you are disrespecting yourself?
- In order to gain importance and respect from others, do you try to punish what you are not?
We all want to impress others more or less anyway. We know it shouldn't be done, but we do it anyway.
Trying to impress others means that I am not so good, so worthy, good, admirable or respectable, to admit it in my mind.
If we have low self-esteem and self-respect, we want to present ourselves in such a way that others are fascinated and amazed. As if they think this man is so good, worthy, respectable.
Why do they have to prove themselves so good? If they don't think you're a good person, how good are they? If they can't respect what you do, why should they be good, respectable people to you?
He who loves himself, likes himself, respects himself should not be desperate to impress others. Do you try to impress others? Then avoid that slave attitude today. Free yourself, rely
- You support what others say, because you don't want to hurt others:
Your own opinion is important. But when you do not express your own opinion (fear, shame, greed for whatever reason) and support the opinion of others like Tabedar, it proves to yourself and to them, your opinion is not really important.
That means you are not a worthy, respected person. Why do you do that?
You do not want to be frustrated if you cannot get the right pitch so invest in a good capo. If someone feels hurt or offended by your honest, well-thought-out opinion, understand that they don't want your opinion, they want you to be just a "yes man" to them.
What else is there for those who spend their whole lives as "Yes Man" of others, whatever their self-esteem, self-respect? - Do you regularly hide what you feel?
People are just emotional creatures. But society has taught us to hide all this so that others do not feel uncomfortable. Not everything is going well, but saying "fine" every time is not just cheating, it's disrespectful. The thought of seeing me sad, devastated, anxious will make me small to others, they will have fun, tease, etc. It means giving importance to their opinions and reactions. Self-respecting people care little about others, praise them, or scold or ridicule them. Whatever you reveal, do not hide it in someone's shame. You become like yourself. - Suffering from guilt / shame after doing the right thing for yourself by not listening to the advice of others?
We need the advice of elders in our lives. However, if the advice does not seem right or if you do not consider the opinion of others right for yourself, then do not suffer the crime by acting like yourself. They will be rejected, they will get angry, they will suffer, they will not cooperate Give less importance, less respect to yourself. - Do you just say "yes" to things that aren't important to you or that you don't have time for?
Give yourself time, support, respect. If you can get others to request you, do what you can for them, but don't say "yes" all the time just to keep them happy by skipping your schedule and sacrificing your own priorities. This is not selfishness. If they slander you for this, if they dislike you, that will be their selfishness. It is not biased to work for your own needs, if you do not do it you will disrespect yourself
. Do you always allow yourself to be used as a pet to please others?
Only when we ourselves are happy can we make others happy. By focusing on ourselves we can bring about the greatest change within ourselves. Mahatma Gandhi said, "Bring within yourself the change that you do not want in the world." But if you sell your independent self to keep others happy, they can trample on you as they please, you act as a pawn in their hands, then is it possible to develop yourself, to make your own transition? Can you be happy in that case? How to make them happy if you are not happy yourself? But you know with all your heart you want to make them happy. They can be enslaved by others, they cannot be respected or honored.
. Do you keep your own needs below the needs of others?
Don't go for less that your full potential. When we don't take good care of ourselves, we can work better, earn more and be emotionally healthy. So prioritize your needs, needs, put yourself in the seat of respect.
. Can't you leave the bad company?
We cannot develop our true selves unless those who accompany us are truly honest with us