The past of how someone is treated by others also affects one's motivation to be successful.
Most other people are indeed despised people who have the motivation to succeed in order to be appreciated by those who have bullied them.
There are toxic thoughts that grow a mindset of success, which actually make a person mentally develop unhealthily, and cause abnormal social relationships with other people.
What are your goals for success?
Success for Self Development
Success is not about revenge. The essence of success is a gift to yourself that must get the best. We strive for success in the development of our life.
Proving to others is indeed a normal part of our lives. About how we can be rewarded for being able to prove we can succeed. But there are other things that sometimes a person doesn't realize. Some people just want to be successful for revenge and look down on those who used to underestimate it too.
It's a good thing if we insult people to motivate us to be better in the future. However, that does not mean we harden our hearts to become vindictive. Be careful with our goals for success.
Bad Energy that Spreads Poison Mentally
The desire for revenge is like a bad intake for one's mental health. Seem motivating in terms of success but unconsciously evokes another side of a person.
It is possible that with an increasing grudge against someone, one's self will become pessimistic about life, but the goal is only to take revenge on someone.
So instead of holding a grudge against someone, you can start learning to forgive and let it go. It takes time to successfully let go. But rest assured when you have succeeded in giving up, you will enter a better phase of life. You will focus more on yourself. And you will have a goal of success for the good of yourself and the people around you, not for revenge.
Stay Positive!
Best Regards,
Anggrek Lestari