"He has to be prepared to accept the things he dislikes, the things he dislikes," said James Boswell.
This is a difficult truth. You mix with many means that it is wrong to think that everyone will be like your mind. Those who mix with many know how many kinds of people there are in the world! What a difficult thing to mix with everyone!
Now the question may be, then why do we mix when there is so much trouble?
If not the head, where will the pain!
But it is not. You can learn a lot by mixing with many. You will get ideas about many new things. You will learn good by mixing with good, but not everyone in the world will be good. Again, you will learn bad by mixing only with bad, but not everyone in the world is that bad!
So both good and bad have to be mixed with it. Everything has to be known. It is inevitable that you have a partial knowledge of everything from kitchen to politics. Mix again, but it does not mean close to each other!
Mixing means having a good relationship with everyone,
You know,
Learn,
Teach.
As the saying goes, "The place of learning from the cradle to the grave."