Does Your Perception Of Your Gender Influence Your Way Of Living, Negatively?

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Our Gender plays a huge role in how we live our life. Being a man, you are made to work hard because it is in man's nature to care for those around him. Men are in charge of the security, feeding, comfort, and well-being of those around them. This makes every male-born structure his life to meet up with the demands of his gender. Men are also the strongest and as such the female counterparts do not stand a chance against them. They feel inferior to them and are most times intimidated by the men.
Women may not be equal in strength to men but they are usually more beautiful and creative in a way than men. There are few expectations from them when it comes to taking care of those around them and as such, they may not subject themselves to as much hard work as men.

Some women, because they know that life doesn't put pressure on them, live their life with little or no effort. They convince themselves that they are in a man's world, where a woman's job is to offer assistance. Some of them, because of their beauty, are usually reluctant to build themselves because their beauty will attract an established man for them, and they live happily afterward. When these types of women are married, they will have nothing to contribute other than raising children. This usually puts pressure on the man because he has to carry all the responsibilities of the family.
Some ladies also abuse their woman's power by extorting money from men because men are usually moved by what they see. This is why you see men being a puppet at the hand of a woman.

Men on their part do abuse their strength. We have seen cases of men abusing and maltreating women. Knowing that they are the weaker species, they took that as an advantage to treat them as they like. Outside physical harm, some men cause emotional damage to women because women are more emotional with incidence than men. We have seen cases of men deceiving women with lies only to satisfy their urges.

The truth is that, be you, man or woman, the advantage you have over the other counterpart is something given to you so that by coming together with the other counterpart, both of you can make up for the deficiencies in each other. The man will bring his strength, wisdom, etc while the woman brings her creative mind, big heart, empathy, etc and the relationship becomes stronger and COMPLETE. It is usually a sad scenario when men use their strength on women or women use their woman power on men.

Our perception of our gender shouldn't be on the negative side. Men should view their gender from the point that their strength should be used to build homes and care for those around them. Women should think of their gender as those entrusted to assist the men in their struggles to build homes and society. Being a woman doesn't mean you can also provide for the family or in building times and society. None should allow himself or herself to be a liability nor use his gender to exploit others. We need each other to be complete.