Hello everyone. This topic has always been on my mind for so long but I always get occupied and at the end of the day, I won't end up writing it. Having sex in the dream is a very popular thing in Africa. Also, we have a special belief about it. This is a common thing among African women. This is why you will find it easy to see African women, lady or girls who always dream of having sex with their boyfriend, ex or an unknown person. Well, I'm glad that everyone here are from different countries and also different continents so we are going to have a different view to this. I like that and it is one of the major reasons why I want to table this matter to you all.
I would have loved to say that Africans and their superstitious beliefs are at it again but I have seen a lot of people that this happened to and I can proudly say that our beliefs are true. It is not superstitious. So let's go to the difference between the African mentality and other continent's mentality.
In Africa, it is mostly believed that anyone who have sex in his dream is battling with spiritual problem. This means that the person has a spiritual spouse that comes to sleep with him or her at night. It is mostly believed that such a person was from a spiritual entity before he or she came to life and the spiritual husband or wife is not ready to leave her alone. The spiritual husband is ready to follow her to anywhere that she goes to. This is out major belief in Africa. It is why we always take dreams that has to do with sex, seriously.
Moreover, we also believe that since it deals with spiritual entities, it will affect our normal lifestyle. Here, the spiritual husband or wife will be so jealous of the physical spouse of his spiritual wife. He is going to ruin things for then physically, emotionally and financially. He is also going to cause unnecessary argument between the partners. Also, the spiritual spouse makes it difficult for the person to get married to someone in real life. Also, if the lady gets pregnant, the spiritual husband will make sure that she has a miscarriage. That's our belief. I also surf the net about it just now. Take a look at the screenshots...
Africans are spiritual people so we mostly believe in all of these things. Once you begin to have sex in your dream, it means that you have a problem. If you read carefully all that was being screenshoted here, you will know how well Nigerians or Africans take having sex in the dream seriously.
Let's talk about the scientific belief. I'm black and I cannot say much about the whitish beliefs. I only learnt that if you have sex in the dream, it means that you are trying to connect physically to that person. Some people also believe that they are fantasies. It is also considered normak. I also took some screenshots of it. Let's check them out...
