I decided to share this story with you. This happened to my friend and it is something that has been happening to a lot of guys in my community and at the end of the day, a lot of them commit crimes that they are not supposed to commit just because they want to keep their relationship or because they want to regarded as big boys in the society too. The rate of negative influence in my country is now very high and that is why you need to be very careful of the kind of friends that you keep so that you will not be influenced negatively on one act or the other.
A friend was gisting me about his relationship and how much he likes his girlfriend, a few days ago. Two days ago, he texted me and told me that the lady said she is no longer interested in the relationship. What could have caused that? The guy took his time to ask the girl the reason she said she is no longer interested in the relationship and she told him that she needed more money. If I may ask, is that a relevant reason? The reason is so irrelevant and it was obvious that she does not like the guy. She only wanted his money. She also went on to say that she needs a supportive guy. That's so crazy. My friend has always been supportive and always give her what she needs. I thought love doesn't cost a dime but it is costing more than a dime in the Nigerian society.
Let me show you the screenshots of their chats:
I think you can be able to tell what kind of love the lady has for the guy. She loves him for just the money he is giving to her. I think it is not supposed to be like that. I'm still trying to reason why a girl will date a guy for money. I have seen so many instances where girls dates guys that they cannot be proud of but they date them just because of the money and it is not nice. This is why we have a high rate of divorce in Africa these days because people are dating their partners for money or for something else just because they want to take advantage of the person and whenever they get what they want they will file a divorce. And this is why you should always date someone that you can get married to and someone that you can love.
To me, love does not cost a dime!