Affinities should be built on conviction, not conditions- Sunita Dutta.

in blurtindia •  3 years ago 

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(Grow relationships without conditions and fly together rest of the life)

Dear friends,
How are you all? I wish you all a wonderful week. Today while sitting and recalling my past experiences, I discerned that relationships are the most treasured things for life.

So, I chose to share my thoughts about relationships with you all.
I will describe the meaning of affinities in two parts;
today I came up with the first part, and tomorrow I will share the second part.

The points I am going to share here that I received from my personal experiences;
and considerable can differ with me.

So before starting my blog, I want to clarify that we all are individuals;
and we all have self-experiences and self-observations.

Everyone in this world carries some relationships with them.
Some relationships we get immediately after getting birth, and rest we connect with the time.

We often ignore to notice that a child in the time of their juvenility copied ninety percent of their activities from their parents.

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Let us help our children to select their own rides:-

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The first few things I believe all parents should keep in their minds are how, when, and what?

1.How to speak with their juvenile children?
2.When to raise the points for them or when to make the objections?
3.What language must they use when they speak with their child?

Last but not least, the home atmosphere is the most-essential part of a child's growth.

Nowadays I often observe that parents make Affinities with their children! Are you all surprised! But it's true.

When their children ask for anything, most of the time, parents give some terms and condition;
related to their children's education.

Let me clear my point when adolescent children demand anything by following their passion(Eg- like to join sports, like to join other fields, want to purchase anything that they like apart from education);

Before giving permission, parents set a goal for them and select a percentage that those children must deliver in return.

That pressure often does not help the children to grow independently.
Not only parent-children relationships but sometimes we could see several relations are growing in terms of conditions.

So, lastly, I would say Affinities should be built on conviction, not provisions;
because conditional relationships don't last long. That was the thought for the day. Stay healthy and happy.

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